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Read moreWelcome to LovetoAttract.com
My name is Nathan Joseph and I am the founder of LovetoAttract.com.
I created this site in May 2011 to offer a once stop resource for the most accurate, well-researched and simple to read love and relationship advice available.
I have read dozens of books on this subject, reviewed dozens of studies and have dedicated the last 10 years of my life to understanding how human attraction works – and more importantly how it DOESN’T WORK.
In my mission to understand human love and relationships, Ive discovered there are two trains of thought on this subject. Firstly,
Basic Animal Attraction Teachings, These Include:
- Pick Up Artists/Guides/Gurus
- Guides relating to dating “tricks”
- Alpha and Beta Social Status Teachings
The basic premise of these teachings is that love can be quantified and forced onto someone by changing your actions or social status - triggering the primitive attraction mechanism in the human brain .
And secondly,
Emotional Attraction Teachings:
- Relationship Maintenance Guides
- Therapy
- “Quality Time” Teachings
- Focus on trust, compassion, communication and kindness.
These teachings convey the idea that love is built on a deeper level then basic animal attraction. They teach proper communication skills and how to make your significant other feel special and loved.
I found it odd that there was such a big disconnect between the two schools of thought, so I set out to find out which was right. Along the way, I came to realize that love and attraction are unique in that there is nothing else in the universe that follows similar rules. I also discovered that love and attraction are counter-intuitive, non-nonsensical and almost laughable – despite this, they do follow certain rules and guidelines that are pre-coded in the human brain.
It is my goal to share these rules and guidelines to help you improve your relationship, understand where your going wrong and learn how to trigger attraction in a partner.
I would recommend starting with my my most popular articles: Signs of Attraction, How to tell if a guy likes you and How to get over a break up and go from there.
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Important point you make there. but i actually do not fully agree with you on this. also things are a bit evolved nowadays.
That’s what I thought too. But I’ve come to discover that both of these fields of thought are correct. You need both attraction and relationship skills to build a quality relationship.
Wow! That’s a really neat anwesr!
You have shed a ray of susnhnie into the forum. Thanks!
Hello Nathan Joseph,
I really enjoyed the read. It was informative and entertaining. I am just wondering if you could help me out. I am trying to date girls and I find it difficult to meet ‘good ones’. Thanks
John
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