It’s hard when you feel like you will never get your ex back, but the time to try for it is now. We all speak from experience that sometimes the perfect apology letter to your ex girlfriend can be what will win them back once and for all.
We’ve all been there feeling down and out because the girl of our dreams is gone for good. Does she have to be though? Isn’t there a way to win her back and make her realize that you are truly sorry? The good news is that there sure is and this solution will help you tremendously!
First and foremost women eat this stuff up and when you put your thoughts into words it is sure to win her over. Next and something to think about is the fact that if you apologize and really mean it, she will see you in a different light.
So while you may find it hard to come up with the words for the perfect apology letter to your ex girlfriend, sometimes you just have to speak from the heart.
Reflect on what went wrong, address it, and then after you apologize try to move on with her if she’s willing.
Sometimes you need a little extra help and so dont forget to check out our four step program to getting an ex back (dont MISS THIS, its free!) and my personalized coaching can help in combination with the apology letter. This is one measure that can’t possibly hurt and yet can help with everything.
Don’t Be Afraid To Put Yourself Out There and Be Vulnerable
The whole point of an apology letter is to show her how you feel and to make her realize that you are truly sorry. That means that you have to show a vulnerable side and not be afraid of her initial reaction. She may still be mad and apprehensive, but when she sees that you are putting yourself out there in this way she is going to be in awe.
Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and do show that this really means something to you. This can be the measure that really helps to win her back and so your actions, your words, and how you conduct yourself are what she’s going to be looking at. In fact the perfect apology letter to your ex girlfriend must have that vulnerable component to it if you wish to enjoy a possible future with you—put it out there and see what happens!
Be Sincere With Your Apology and Touch On the Issue
You did something wrong, the relationship ended, and there are hurt or ill feelings on her part. This letter is your way of saying you’re sorry and therefore you must really mean it. Whatever went wrong, whatever you did, or however the relationship ended, this is the time to address things and show you are truly sorry.
She doesn’t want to hear the blame game play out, trust that women don’t like that sort of thing. Take this time to really feel and be sorry and to let her see that through your words. Don’t just say sorry but show it through words that address what she means to you and how much you’ve missed her since the breakup. This will all sum up to her seeing you in a totally different light.
Focus On How You Two Can Move Forward Together—Take It Slow!
Do address things, do be sincere in your apology, and do let her see that you’ve changed and that you’re committed. You also want to focus on how the two of you can move forward together as that’s the whole point of you writing the letter.
If you didn’t want her back then you wouldn’t be trying to show her how much you care and you certainly wouldn’t be trying to write the perfect apology letter to your ex girlfriend. The end result that you are hoping for is to have her back as your own and so this is where your words must be filled with meaning.
After the acknowledgement of the past and the apology comes your plea for a future with her. Be thoughtful in how you say this and be sure that she understands you are willing and interested in taking it slow.
The letter complete with your kind and genuine words coupled with your heartfelt plea for a future will make this letter the step that wins her back and allows you to see what the future might bring—try it and you just might be surprised at how well this all works!
Ps. A letter is just one step of the four required to get your ex back, check our four step program now for the rest…. you can also get a bit of personalized one-on-one coaching, it can help along with your letter to win them back for good!
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