The break up of a relationship is normally tough for both for both partners- especially if the relationship has been steady for awhile. You may be sitting at home a bit lost and confused and wonder if your ex still has feelings for you.
Chances are that your ex still does have some feelings for you whether they show them or not. There is a connection made in a relationship between two people and the feelings associated with that connection do not instantly disappear. One can ignore them or distract them, but they will remain there for some time. This is one reason so many couples who break up get back together after awhile; the bond remains.
One common mistake that people make when trying to win their ex back is to tell them how much they still love and miss them, but they refrain from asking the ex how they feel. It is important to get your ex to talk about their feelings for you so that they physically feel the emotion of love, and remember what it was like.
When your ex feels love, they are more open to think about getting back together – this is explained, along with 3 other EXACT steps to getting your ex back, here! (dont miss this!)
Here are some tell-tale signs that your ex still has feelings for you:
Asks your friends about you
If your ex makes it a habit to ask your friends how you are doing or what you’ve been up to lately, this is a sign thatthey still have feelings for you. If there were no feelings, they would not pry into your life.
Randomly texts you
Normally when two people break up communication stops and each person goes on in different directions. If your ex randomly texts you with questions or comments, this is another important sign that they still have feelings for you. If they were really moving on, they would refrain from contacting you.
Shows up at your home
If your ex shows up at your home or work for a random reason, it could be that they just wanted to see you again.
If your ex starts reminiscing about the good old days and all of the fun times that you had, it’s a sure sign that he still has feelings for you. He is bringing these memories up because he would really like to have such good times with you again.
If your ex hears that you have been hanging out with other prospects or catches wind that you have started dating and they get jealous, it is a sign thatthey have not gotten over you, that they still have feelings for you, and are still protective of you.
These are a few common signs that your ex still has feelings for you. If your ex matches up with several of these, realize that there are still feelings there and the possibility of getting back together is pretty good. Be subtle and take things slow, as you don’t want to come across clingy and needy.
Relax and let things progress as they will. Take their lead and go with it just like you did at the beginning of your relationship. Plenty of people who break up end up getting back together and working out the kinks in their relationship. Exactly how to do this, along with the 4 other MUST-DO steps to getting your ex back can be found here. Get your ex back today!
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