Important concepts: How To Impress A Girl -
- The most important qualities for impressing a girl are: Confidence, humor and high social status – in that order. (Print this list off or bookmark it.)
The following male qualities ALSO help to impress girls, but are slightly less important:
- trust and safety
- protective of loved ones
- good health
- symmetrical physique
- mental strength
- physical strength
- bravery (without being wreckless) and,
- Pre-selection by other girls
- A big part of impressing a girl is trying to make it seem like you are NOT trying to impress her at all. The idea here is to subconsciously send a message that your BETTER than her (evolutionarily speaking) and that you can handle her with ease. Don’t let her make you nervous – make HER nervous around you instead.
-Check out my other articles: How to talk to a girl, how to approach a girl and how to make a move on a girl to complete the dating cycle. Most importantly though, you need to read and understand my 4 tips for creating massive female attraction.
- Ive created five steps that you can follow to sneakily demonstrate MOST of these qualities – all without her knowing that you’re trying to impress her at all. She wont know what hit her.
How to Impress a Girl – The Five Steps
5 – Be decisive -
When trying to impress a girl always be decisive; make decisions and stick with them.
Do NOT change your opinion or your decision based on a girl’s opinion. For example, if you tell a girl that you like hockey and she tells you that she doesn’t, you’d want to say jokingly: “Whats wrong with you? Hockey is awesome.” NOT “Oh yeah you’re kinda right actually….hockey isn’t that good.”
This also applies to physical actions, you’d want to say “Come to bar with me, were gonna get drinks.” NOT “Hey, do you think you might want to maybe go to the bar and get a drink, its okay if you don’t want to.” Don’t be a wimp.
Being decisive and certain demonstrates confidence in your own opinion, mental strength, dominance and the joke demonstrates humor – 4 birds with one stone.
4 – Hint at your past relationships and other girls liking you-
The key here is to hint at your wild endeavors in the world of women WITHOUT making it seem like you’re bragging. A women WILL ask you about your past and you could use this as a queue to say something like “Oh yeah, that camping trip was wild. I brought this girl from my class who was was crazy in love with me….we had fun…..*grin*. She ended up stalking me. Good times.”
When the girl asks you for more details about the relationship just continue to say “We had a good time together…” with a smirk. Youll come across as humble, discreet and casual BUT your really showing her that OTHER women are intensely attracted to you – which demonstrates pre-selection by other females and high-social status; this attraction trigger is wired into the female brain because it saves them the time and energy of screening you as a potential mate – someone else already did it for them.
3 – Be funny at other people’s expense -
This sounds mean, and it is. But it works.
Humor is the SECOND most important quality in impressing a girl. Your interactions with a girl should be full of humor, some of which should be aimed at her expense; make fun of her handbag, how she walks in heels or how slowly she eats. SOMETHING.
You can also make fun of the guy with a unibrow at the other table or the tiny dude with a massive beer gut by calling him a “beauty” – anything that shows SOME dominance over others. In any case, always make it obvious that youre joking, you dont want to come off as mean or bitter.
This playful teasing demonstrates mental strength, humor, dominance and courage.
2 – Dont brag – wait until you’re asked -
Dont talk about your six-figure job, your amazing ability to juggle flaming chainsaws or you model train collection UNTIL a girls asks you. SHE WILL ASK YOU. Focus on being funny and having fun. Once she brings it up you can talk about it ONE TIME – make it casual and humble: “My job, oh, right now Im the CEO at a big-wig bank. I like it.”
Leave it at that, never bring it up again. ONCE is all you need. You think that she will forget that you are a CEO if you don’t constantly remind her? Hell no, she will be telling her mom all about it on the phone that night. Bragging comes across as weakness, being humble implies strength, confidence, mystery, intelligence and social competence. You thrive in society – and its so natural to you that its not even a big deal.
#1 Rule – How to impress a girl | Be Confident – in everything you do:
- Lead the way without second-guessing yourself.
- Speak without reservation.
- Don’t ask, tell.
- Keep a casual and relaxed body position.
- Keep eye contact.
- Don’t apologize when you’re not wrong.
These are the actions of a strong, confident man.
Seeing as how demonstrating confidence is the number one way to impress a girl IT IS NOT OPTIONAL. If you do not establish early on that you are comfortable in your own skin, and that you have your emotions of fear and anxiety at bay – you will kill any chance you have of impressing this girl.
There is only one WAY to become confident: Life experience.
You cant fake or mimic confidence – girls can smell weakness a mile away. You need to get out in the world and make mistakes, get burned, and learn! Put your fears aside man, and ask that hot waitress out, date women, takes risks and master your dating skills. In the world of dating, when it rains, it pours; once youve established confidence around women, your dating life will expand, exponentially.
Once you’ve overcome your fears, sucked it up, and kissed her without getting rejected like you did in your over-active imagination – you can take a huge and well deserved sigh of relief. You’ve made it. You’re now 100% certain this girl is interested in you; you’ve now entered the dating and attraction phase.
To master this phase, prevent rejection, and get the girl, I would highly recommend you read my 4 secrets for massive female attraction. Here I offers my best tips for dating and attracting women that Ive found to date. In short, you WILL walk away with the BEST tools for attracting women there are.
Check it out now – and get this girl!
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