Most men love to be able to attract girls in a variety of ways. Have you ever thought about how you can use your body language to attract girls? It is actually much easier than you might think.
For starters, having good posture shows that you are confident and wearing a smile shows that you are approachable and probably happy go lucky. Confidence and humour are two of the 8 important keys to massive female attraction that I teach in my free guide, make sure to get your copy!
Whether you know it or not, women are sending out subtle signals all the time to guys they find attractive. For example, let’s say you are in a night club and a woman spots you sitting at the bar having a drink with your buddy. She thinks you’re adorable and immediately begins sending you subtle signals that she wants you to come over and talk to her.
A problem arises if you do not understand what those signals are. She may become frustrated and think that you are not interested or she will simply come to the conclusion that you are clueless and not worth the effort.
Let’s assume that you’ve been displaying good posture and smiling. Now what? You notice that this woman is stealing glances at you and smiling. What should you do?
First, make eye contact with her and extend a smile as well. I mean really make eye contact and hold it for a few seconds. Don’t stare her down or you might come off as the lunatic stalker type, but do learn how to smile with your eyes. Many women are quite smitten with a man’s eyes.
If she is smiling at you and you are smiling and making eye contact with her, her subtle signs are working and she wants you to approach her. Take a deep breath, relax your insides, get up and confidently walk over to her. As you walk, stand tall and feel confidence rise within you. If you slouch your shoulders and look at the ground, she will gather that you are scared and insecure.
When you reach her, simply say hello and introduce yourself with a playful and confident smile. Your body language should reflect confidence and openness.
Do not cross your arms, as this is a closed body posture pose and shouts “rigid”. Go ahead and have a seat beside the woman and focus on maintaining eye contact with her as you converse with her. Nod your head to acknowledge things that she is saying, as it reinforces her and lets her know that you are interested in what she is saying.
Sit straight up with your legs parallel with each other about shoulder width apart. Do not cross your legs and don’t spread them far apart like when you’re sitting in your living room drinking beer with the guys during a football game. Be sensible.
If the conversation is going well, you can move your chair a little closer to her or lean in a bit as you talk. This conveys the fact that you like her and you are interested in getting to know her better.
Be sure to smile a lot. This woman does not know you well and bet and believe she is wondering if you are nice guy for real or if you are simply trying to score one for the team. Don’t be afraid to open up and laugh as well. If you are rigid and serious, talking about your career or some other thing that she could really care less about, she will most likely not become interested in you.
Be light hearted. Feel free to flirt and use your body language to let her know that one, you’re a good guy and two, you are interested in getting to know her better. Body language can be a powerful way to get your feelings across to a woman, so remember the basics and everything should go alright.
Approaching a woman is only the first step in getting her, building attraction, and KEEPING her in love – make sure to check out my free guide “The 4 secrets to massive female attraction” where I reveal EXACTLY how to attract them with devastating precision.
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