Breaks ups sure can be difficult and plenty of emotions get stirred up during and after a break up. You may be heartbroken over yours and miss your ex like crazy. Even though the relationship was not going as well as you’d hoped, you still wonder how you can make your ex boyfriend fall in love with you again. There is good news for you. Using the right strategies and patience, you may be able to get your ex to miss you and eventually fall in love with you again. Of course, it helps to know is a bit of male psychology.
Most women do things that only help to drive their boyfriend further away from them after a break up. Bombarding him with text messages, phone calls, emails, and stalking his every move will never make him want to recommit to you. All of those tactics make you come across as an emotionally unstable, controlling woman.
Instead of such tactics, take a deep breath and try some of these tips to get him back again:
- Stay Away from Him
The best way of attracting your ex boyfriend and making him fall in love with you again is to keep away for him for some time. This will allow him to think of you without you vying for his attention. Give him some time to let his mind settle down and then he will most likely start focusing on you just like old times. He will undoubtedly go back over all of the good times and memories of you together. Even if you see him accidentally, just react casually or you could even try ignoring him completely. Don’t communicate with him for some time and don’t show any interest in him immediately after the breakup.
This will result in some kind of disappointment and he might even be intrigued by your reaction. This is one surefire way of making him come after you and make him want you again. You may think that this is a cruel and hardhearted way of reacting to someone you had loved, but it works much of the time. This is an integral step in my four steps to getting your ex back (its free, check it out), that it is the best way to get him thinking about recommitting to you once again.
2. Making Polite Conversation
This being said, it does not mean that you need to completely ignore him. If he initiates a conversation, you can be polite, put on a smile, and engage with him cordially. Don’t show your emotions openly but just have a natural conversation. Act as if you have a lot of things to do and that you are very busy. Simply answer his questions but don’t try to extend the conversation in any way. You need to have just enough contact to keep in touch, as if you cut off all communication, you could end up giving him the wrong signals and he may never approach you again.
3. Focus on a Hobby
There must have been something about you that attracted him in the first place. Try to figure out what this was. Were you super confident with your career? Were you always out having fun with your hobbies? Besides the physical attraction, there were probably other things that caused your ex to love you. If you had given up your hobbies and friends, reconnect and get out there once again. This will also help reduce the pain of separation and you can focus on some things that you enjoy.
In short, send him signals to make him realize that you are not at his disposal. Let him know that you are moving on with your life in confidence and having fun. This may or may not make your ex boyfriend fall in love with you again, but either way, you are doing positive things for your life. As you focus on you and as you distance yourself from his world, he is more apt to miss you and will be eager to get in touch with you. Learn as much as you can about relationships and even how to get your ex back. There are plenty of fantastic resources out there that will help you including my free proven system.
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Use this system, think positive and visualize him contacting you and you two getting back together. Many couples who break up get back together, so it is highly possible.